6 Steps to Get Your Own Business Started
- By Mom Solo

Money worries can feel heavy, especially during times of rising prices, unstable income, and family responsibilities. Many Filipino women carry invisible pressures. Some of us support extended family, run a small business, manage household budgets, or juggle several roles at once. It is normal to feel overwhelmed. Still, there is always room for hope and growth.
The truth is, before you can achieve financial security, you need to believe it is possible. Your belief becomes your anchor, your fuel. It shapes how you make decisions and move toward your goals. A healthy money mindset helps you shift away from fear and step into confidence. It encourages you to trust that you can build a better future, one step at a time.
Healing an unhealthy money mindset starts with awareness.
A scarcity mindset happens when you constantly feel there is never enough. Not enough money. Not enough opportunities. Not enough time.
For many, this mindset comes from childhood experiences, cultural expectations, or years of financial struggle. You might catch yourself thinking, “I can never save”, “I will always be in debt”, or “Money always runs out”.
Scarcity makes you focus on what you lack instead of what you can create. It can lead to stress spending, delaying important decisions, or avoiding financial planning altogether because it feels scary or impossible.
The good news is, a scarcity mindset can be unlearned. Your story can change at any age, at any stage, no matter where you are starting. The key is to shift your mindset from scarcity to abundance.
Pick one day each week to sit down for 15 minutes and check your wallet, e-wallets, and bank balances. Categorize your recent expenses and identify what you can adjust next week. This simple practice builds awareness and reduces financial anxiety.
Many fears come from not understanding money. Explore free financial education programs, workshops, and online resources, such as InLife Sheroes. The more you learn, the more empowered you become. Knowledge removes fear and replaces it with clarity.
Community strengthens your mindset. Talk to mentors, join women-focused financial groups, or spend time with people who uplift you. When you hear stories of women overcoming financial challenges, you start believing you can do it too.
Picture your financial goals. A stable emergency fund. A thriving business. A peaceful home. Money for your kids or parents. Visualization reinforces belief. Belief inspires action. And action brings results.
Healing your money mindset is a journey. It asks you to be patient, gentle, and brave. It is a step toward breaking generational cycles and building a life rooted in security instead of fear.
If you want guidance, sisterhood, and a supportive space that understands your journey, the InLife Sheroes community is here for you. Join us as we continue empowering Filipino women through education, wellness, and meaningful connections.